Sunday 29 January 2023

Act Now, End Leprosy!

When I was just 9 year old, I was diagnosed for Leprosy. I didn't get a proper treatment at initial stage of the disease due to lack of awareness. And it deformed some of my limbs for lifelong. Social discrimination & exclusion trapped me between life & death. But a disease can't define who I am. Thanks to NGOs, Hospitals & People for helping & making me capable to lead my life with dignity. 


As a Leprosy Affected Person, I would like to request you all to increase awareness about the disease, it's completely curable and advocate for the elimination of discrimination and negative stereotypes associated with leprosy. 

Act now. End Leprosy. 

World Leprosy Eradication Day!

Sunday 2 June 2019

Best of the Best




Closing my eyes 
Vision unfolds
The pious lady
God's devotee...

As a daughter
As a daughter in law
As a sister
As a mother
How many I count
Each role mom, how perfectly tied.

Dad's perfect wife
Our eternal strength
A humble being
Symbol of love, each time...

With you I decor
My dreamy blue sky
In your warmth
This heart desire to soak each time
You are the land
You my sky
You are my inspiration
I desire to be alike
You are the strength
Of my broken eyes
You are my soul
With your vision
I want to strive...

Just with you
I want to surround my life
Forces of nature
She is the greatest humanly
You in her form
I visualize....

Tuesday 28 May 2019

Single By Choice!


Many time I wonders, why marriages are a great institution in India? Why we girl is desiring a such kind of life partner for herself? Why we Indian to get married for just some false valid reasons?


In India, marriages filled by great celebration and rituals. In Indian society, marriage is a big Tamasa that every person gone through this. Often we think that we rose only for this institution, especially when it is a girl. It’s very strange as well as funny that half of marriages done by wrong reason, society pressure is one of them. People marry because society thinks they should marry.

We as a girl’s rise by this thought that one day our prince will come on a white horse and will take away all the troubles. We girls think that someday we will meet our soul mate. He will come and will make our life worthwhile. Then we will be complete. The fairy tale, and of course movies reinforces us, then we will only complete, when we will meet our other half. Simran is happy, only when she is with Raj. But it’s just only a fairly tale. It happens only in movies not in real life. The reality is so much different. No one completes anyone. Two complete individuals can join a journey, but no one can complete you. That thought only comes when we think we are not special as we are. But lovely ladies think, if you can not compete yourself own, you are not happy with yourself, then how can anyone make you happy. Happiness is related to our self. It comes from us. Self love is the best thing, which we received when we love our self unconditionally.

The good news is that India is changing. The new generation of women has many open doors. The scenario is changing. Gone are the days when the men are responsible for women all required needs. Education and economic freedom providing this power to women that they don’t need anyone to fulfill their needs.  This time they are able to take a decision that they should get married or stay single. They can decide what they want from their life.

But in India, stay single is really easy. I think it’s not. For a woman, it’s more difficult. A woman who crossed her twenties is the most discussion topic in her entire family and relatives. Every get to gathering, every faction gives the reasons for marring her. According to relatives and neighbors every guy is just suitable for her. Indian culture never allows women to grow as an individual.

Today’s women know how manages her life. How to take own decision and how to manage her finance. They are doing well in almost every industry. The new generation women are fearless.

This point should be noted that there is a big difference between single or lonely. Single is who, who is happy with him/herself. Who is leading a normal life. Someone who doesn’t need anyone to take care of him/her. Who is able to take own life responsibility.

Stop finding the one, be your lover. The most beautiful thing in staying single is, you have enough time for yourself, your dreams. Most of the times realizing and doing something for yourself is more important than the world realizing for you. Stay single, till then you will not find someone, who truly deserve you. Staying single is much better rather than being with just anyone, who kept away you from yourself worth and respect. Hey women....you are so beautiful.  Life is full of miracles. Singleness is the gift, enjoy big far ride, this called life.
  
Waiting for a fairy tale romance to complete you. No one can complete you. Someone can ride with you, but not complete you. Fall in love with yourself and this will complete you.

Monday 13 May 2019

Women’S Day Salute To Moms


Wherever I go, wherever I move, there is someone whose blessings always moves alongside. How much far we stay, the unconditional love of her keeps the essence of ties, beautiful and sturdy. In all form women is portraying the exceptional roles, but the role of mom is eternal, and here, she even outshines divinity.

This is the most  amazing relation that has ever existed in the world. A lot soothing your friends may be but she is the first shadow friend one has; your praise, your falls, your success, and everything that comes along the way, Mom knows everything. As a child, how imperfect one may be but as a mother she is always perfect.

“Tongue-tied
Stood I….
How to articulate
A woman,
the most beautiful
in the world
A woman,
symbol of strength,
sacrifice and love…”

This adorable relation encapsulates the billions smiles, love, trust, support and a lot more undefined. Let’s unfurl the beauty of the relation which is gorgeously sublime.

Mother’s Love

It has been always she who beholds the hand, support  it with care and strengthen it with love. It may be the entering into the first class of school, or the nervy board exams, it may be entering of her girl bewildered into teenage or, a next life to start with. She is the mentor, she builds faith which keeps getting stronger every moment, every day.

The Beautiful I

A child may keep regretting her complexion, scars and physical appearance. But like mothers teach, when a child sees her reflex from the eyes of his mother and discovers the beauty, the beauty which may fail millions of gems because now they are beautiful, ‘as a prince and a princess of mom’.

My Master-Chef

Wherever you reach in the world, the first desire is to come back home, to again lick the fingers and enjoy the delicacies of a mother’s love.

I Care

Not only she embodies it in herself, but the sacrifices, the tender affection and perfect home management give the child, the lesson of share of care.

Win the World

She always lends the support in aspiring the dreams, overcoming the failures and the vigor to live and win the world. She is one who will always stand by your side, concatenated you may fail; she becomes a light which search out the success, from the shades, a lot difficult accomplishing it may be.

A Happy Time

With mom, jiffies of cheers is all that binds the life. Each precious moment of fun remains void without her presence and blessings. She is the one who loves you unequivocal, no matter what. With her it is always a happy time.

More I move, less I will cover, because she is the canvas which gets more beautiful with every stroke extended,  but never completes. She is the hope, she is the the light and one who is undefined.  At last, Love you Maa.



Sunday 21 April 2019

10 Life Lessons I learnt in My Life to be Happy!

Being a woman, not only just being a mother, a daughter, a sister, a wife or just a good looking girl. Being a woman is more than that. Being a woman is more beautiful than our imagination. You are a person first, just before these idealistic identities. You are a human being, you are alive and you are here to live a wonderful life. 


Here are the few lessons that learned to be happier and confidante:-

Accept Yourself as you are:- The very first step in the path of happiness is that you should accept yourself as the way you are. You are complete in yourself. Believe me, once you accept yourself, the situation will be smooth for you.

Accept Everything Around You:- I have learned from that life we need to accept everything around us. Sometime we don’t agree with any situation or person. But at that time silence is the best answer and the best solution is let that person or things go. We should silent and try to stay calm.

Respect and Value Yourself:- It is very important to take care of yourself. No matter how much you care for others never expect anything from anyone, No one is going to make you smile every time. Everyone is busy with his/her own life troubles. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself and health. Give enough value to yourself and take your happiness responsibilities own.

Keep Calm: Today’s time life has become tougher. We are facing many problems in our personal and professional life. But it is very important to keep calm in that kind of situation. We have to patience in every situation. Patience always pays to us.

Have an Aim in Life:- It  is very important that the one should have a purpose in his/her life. A dream that can motivate us. That can give a purpose to live. Life with no purpose a just a blank road without any direction. It can not take us anywhere. Always find a purpose, a dream in life and chase that. That gives a satisfaction and happiness in life.

Do Pray and have Faith in God:- Pray give us strength. Having faith in God or Supreme power makes us strong. A small medication can help us to stay calm and motivate us.

Hear your Heart:- Sometimes we can not take any decision in such situation. In that case we should always listen to our heart. The heart is the mirror of God and it always leads us towards the right decision. Your heart always guide you even on that condition where our mind is not able to take any decision.

Learn to Say Know:- This is something serious, but most important point. We should learn how to say no in any bad situation or for any kind of abuse. When it comes to self worth or self respect than this most important, we should know when we say no. 

Forgiveness is Freedom:- In life, the situation can not right every time. Sometime people did something wrong with us, damage our mind and hurts our soul. But there is important that let it go that situation or person. We have to learn how to forgive people. That not mean that you want them in his/her life again that only means that they can not harm you again. Be strong, Just forgive them and forget.

Stop Judging Someone:- Sometime we waste our time in just judging someone. This can not be our priority. In actuality, people are not that they show us. We need to celebrate this life with support of the each other.

This is life and its goes on. I am still learning and just wondering that how much more to be discovered.


Wednesday 18 February 2015

Love finds you!!

This is a true statement that I have heard many times. You can not find love. It will come to you unconditionally. It comes to you when you are not looking for this or not expect this.


If it comes to lOVE, everyone looking for love but I think no one knows what is the real meaning of love. There are many books written on love but I don’t think any of one in them is able to give the right answer. Love is more than our imagination. Love is the thing that can never hurt anyone. It can not buy or sell. It’s a great blessing of our life.

We are human being. Simply we need love, care and trust. We need someone in our life who loves us, who care us, who trust us and our dreams. Who always stand with us in every up and down. We need love more than anything else.

Mother Teresa once said “The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread”.

But before love someone else we need to be love yourself. We need to love your dreams. Our life is our journey. Someone can walk with us but can not walk for us. First be yourself, Love yourself, Love your Dreams and do work hard for fulfilling all these. Don’t run behind someone else ideas. Create your own. Life is wonderful.  It’s full of adventures. We could become who we want to be. If you have some dream and passionate about this, pursue it. The only thing, where your dreams achieved or not it’s only into your heart. If you can think anything then you can pursue it. Make good friends. Believe in quality not in quantity. Spend your precious time only with those who love, appreciate and care for you. Who encourage you and make you smile. Respect others, encourage others. Stay positive and confident, good things and people defiantly come to you.

I believe in miracles. Love defiantly comes to you. But it’s totally depends on time. Whenever right time will come it will happen. I believe that when things happen naturally then they will remain forever. Whenever the right person come in your life. It’s always when you are not expecting this. In actually that time you are not looking for this, it does naturally.

Take your time, It will come to you defiantly, don’t find it. Just let love finds you. Don’t run behind of someone let someone behind you. The day will come soon then the things you desire will be come into your life.

Thursday 12 February 2015

“Uncommon Victory of Common Men Party"


In 2014, during the parliamentary elections when Arvind Kejriwal visited Varanasi to conduct his election campaign, ink was thrown on his face. 

















At that time one of the newspaper's heading was:- “Don't throw ink on Kejriwal. He might use the same to write history” It seems so relevant today.

Many analyses are coming. Bundle of advices and complaint is ready. Every election comes up with that decision then every sociologist start reading again own copy of the judgement. May 16, 2014 was a historic day that is gone Akmuki India's politics, but on 10 February 2015 finds that remain versatile so many possibilities.

Slogan of Modi “Let's run away” so quickly gone that nobody did not think of this. Up 54.3 per cent of Delhi was running with Arvind Kejriwal besides of Modi. No one thought about 67 seats. After the parliamentary election BJP laughed at congress that her seat is not enough for the leader of the opposition party. But now the party and India's most powerful political leader defeat in Delhi and with the hands of a party that is just two years old. History will not remember this event for just winning and losing. It’s a big deal that Delhi has given another chance to Kejriwal.  

It is worth remembering that Kejriwal apologized for resigning his chief ministership. He apologized without hesitation about quitting and really this apology a rarity in India politics. This made an image of him as an honest and humble leader and people realized that he is a sincere man. In actual, BJP lost a battle of morality with Kejariwal.

Main issues in this election are Bread and Butter issues, Corruption, Electricity, Water Supply, Law and safety of Woman. I think that Kejriwal's victory is a sign that voter dissatisfaction about these basic issues go on deep, although Modi's promises to make everything better. And especially in Delhi, a city where Corruption and Crime remain critical challenges. AAP won because it had given signal in 49 days government that corruption could be erased. BJP failed on this since the acceptance of power there were only talks of bringing black money. The determination was lacking in Modi and his government to bring the black money back.

What was the main reason of BJP Defeat and why Modi magic failed in this election? I think this was dirty politics by BJP. The main factor which helped Modi to win loksabha election, this time worked for Kejriwal. Modi lost in speech. His speaking was unbecoming of such a leader who was a dearest of youth few months back. Youngsters were not happy by his actions and statements. Big cars, costly dresses were not taken up in good taste by the electorates. Although I am also a Modi supporter, but I really hate that nowadays he is become a fashion icon much more a leader. Comparing it with the simplicity of Kejriwal, it is no wonder, public realized him to more close. I personally praise Kejriwal on this matter. But we should not forget the hard work of AAP. Kejriwals kept his whole focus on development of Delhi, build up his party and analysing local problems. Good groundwork by its selfless volunteers and activists has given reward to AAP.

The winning of AAP makes us emotional, but these moments of victory should remember the pain of the people of Delhi, which are the daily suffering. Water and Electricity is the main issue and without solving this why is being shown the dream of world-class city. Now this is the main question that the Central government and Delhi government together will be able to provide basic services to the common man.

Now Indian wants a corruption free India. A country where we can live with honour. AAP has shown the way. It has shown in which direction India may move. Hope AAP will not follow the path of other seniors in its political journey.

I am very certain that AAP have learnt some lessons from his previous 49 days government and would not repeat those mistakes. There have been many just like me who have invested emotionally in AAP. I hope my emotional connect of AAP will make me a lot of trust and faith in this party. 

Sunday 8 February 2015

Do Something Impossible


I recently read a blog about Life & Dreams. An Article who made me realizes that I am going to be dying someday. I have very little precious time for to do something. What I want to do. I have very short time for fulfilling all my dreams.

Here I would like to say that generally it happens with all of us and we all aware of this. But the bitter truth is that we waste our precious time in doing less important work.

I know, we all love to our dreams. We want to do something impossible. Actually if not impossible but something more Logical, more Impressive, More Honourable or may be something that make us happy.

But the main problem is that we have no basic idea about this impossible. It’s just our imagination. Sometimes we all are very busy in our daily routine and for doing something unimportant because of this that we don’t have very little time for  this impossible.

So first of all you just keep doing what’s right in front of you. It could be anything, just like your boring job etc. But always try to find this impossible. It’s just in front of you. You need be see this. Actually you might catch the things and opportunity.

Doing something impossible actually not impossible. It’s our mindset. It’s our criteria and with this we all are band. But the truth is that when we consider the things is impossible then really these are impossible and whenever we make our mindset that everything is possible then everything is possible.

It’s just not only a tricks it’s a honest reality that whenever we want to do something then we can to do this. We all have the capability to do all the things, in actual we want to do. You just to need to be your mind set.

So inspite of thinking that you are not much able to fulfil your dreams just do it. You have all the power. Just plan your day and do something what you love to do every day. And if you have no idea just listen your heart and just ask yourself what is my possibilities.

Lastly I just want to repeat Seth Godwin words:-

"Go ahead, do something impossible."